I mean wtf ... seriously wtf ... I hate people with no boundaries or respect to their own time and money ... changing your self to be accepted by someone, doing too much good things for someone and sacrificing yourself is not marvelous ... actually it is fucked up ... I've seen many people do that and I thought it is okay till I understood that our lives are limited and they aren't garbage bags for other people's dramas ... seriously respect yourself and don't fucking allow anyone who isn't in a right mindset in your opinion to waist any of your time ... every body go through some shit in their lives we aren't responsible for other people's shit till we have our own things to deal with ...